So, what does Gay+1 mean. My coming out.
Those of you that know me, know that something has been going on the past few months. Well, 105 days ago, I came out to myself. And realized that I was primarily gay. But technically bi--because I've been married for 20 years to a wonderful woman. And I'm father to three amazing kids. So, 101 days ago, I came out to my wife. And while it hasn't been the easiest road, it has been one worthy of travel. My wife is so completely and utterly amazing, I cannot put into words (and I can put things into words!) how incredible she is. We are not splitting up and plan to grow old together.
But the really cool thing is that my realization and telling every secret I had to her, has only strengthened our relationship. And it has unleashed in me my long squashed creativity and drive. And I am operating at warp speed.
I have never been as happy as I am today.